How To Tame My Anxiety Monster
TLDRThe video script 'How to Tame My Anxiety Monster' by Melanie Hawkins is a heartfelt narrative that personifies anxiety as a monster that visits the author. It explores the various feelings and physical symptoms that anxiety can cause, such as feeling scared, tired, restless, and experiencing a rapid heartbeat. The story takes a positive turn when the author decides to discuss their anxiety with their parents, discovering that their mother also has a similar 'monster.' Together, they learn to understand and manage this anxiety by giving it a name and learning to train it. The author shares several strategies to help tame the anxiety monster, including engaging in physical activities to release endorphins, practicing yoga and deep breathing, and expressing oneself through art. The story emphasizes the importance of planning and having a support system, as well as the realization that many people experience anxiety. It concludes with a message of empowerment, stating that the author's big, caring heart is a strength and that with the right tools, they are stronger than their anxiety monster.
Takeaways
- 👾 The anxiety monster is a metaphor for the feelings of anxiety that can visit at any time, regardless of the situation.
- 👪 Talking to family members can provide comfort and understanding, as they may have experienced similar feelings.
- 🤗 Naming the anxiety monster can help demystify it and make it seem less intimidating.
- 🏃 Engaging in physical activities like play, walking, or exercising can release endorphins, which can help manage anxiety.
- 🧘 Practicing yoga and deep breathing can help reduce the intensity of anxiety by clearing the mind.
- 🎨 Art can be a calming activity that allows one to visualize and diminish the perceived size and scariness of the anxiety monster.
- 📋 Having a plan for when anxiety becomes overwhelming can help maintain a sense of control.
- 🌐 Recognizing that many people experience anxiety can create a sense of community and reduce feelings of isolation.
- 🧠 Using the five senses to focus on pleasant stimuli can help redirect attention away from anxiety.
- 👩⚕️ Seeking help from professionals like doctors or counselors can provide additional strategies for managing anxiety.
- ❤️ Embracing one's sensitivity and emotional depth is important, as it is a strength that can lead to a rich and empathetic life experience.
- 🤸♀️ The anxiety monster can actually be helpful in certain situations, such as during sports, public speaking, or studying for a test.
- 🧗♂️ Recognizing personal strength allows one to continue with daily activities despite the presence of anxiety.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the story?
-The main theme of the story is learning to understand and manage anxiety, personified as an 'anxiety monster'.
How does the protagonist describe the anxiety monster's visits?
-The protagonist describes the anxiety monster's visits as sometimes big and scary, causing feelings of tiredness, difficulty concentrating, restlessness, anger, increased heart rate, shaking, sweating, stomach pain, and dizziness.
What does the protagonist initially fear about sharing their experience with the anxiety monster?
-The protagonist initially fears that their parents might not believe them when they share their experience with the anxiety monster.
How does the protagonist's mother help in understanding the anxiety monster?
-The protagonist's mother helps by sharing that she also has a similar 'monster' that visits her, which helps the protagonist understand that their experience is shared and not unique.
What is the significance of naming the anxiety monster?
-Naming the anxiety monster makes it seem less scary and more approachable, similar to naming a new pet, which can help in understanding and managing it better.
What are some of the strategies the protagonist uses to train their anxiety monster?
-The protagonist uses strategies such as playing outside, exercising to produce endorphins, doing yoga to clear the mind, engaging in art to change perspective, and having a plan to stay in control when the anxiety monster becomes too big or wild.
How does the protagonist use their five senses to regain control when the anxiety monster is overwhelming?
-The protagonist uses their five senses by looking at something happy, smelling something nice, touching something with texture, listening to something peaceful, and tasting something delicious to distract from the anxiety monster and calm it down.
What role do special doctors or counselors play in helping the protagonist?
-Special doctors or counselors can provide additional help and guidance for the protagonist in learning how to train and manage their anxiety monster.
Why does the protagonist's anxiety monster like to visit them?
-The anxiety monster likes to visit the protagonist because they have a big, kind, and caring heart that feels emotions very deeply, which is a positive trait.
How does the protagonist feel about their ability to manage the anxiety monster by the end of the story?
-By the end of the story, the protagonist feels stronger and more confident in their ability to manage the anxiety monster, believing it won't be a problem anymore.
What is the final message of the story regarding the anxiety monster?
-The final message is that even with the anxiety monster around, the protagonist can still do all the things they need to do, and they have learned how to tame their anxiety monster effectively.
What is the protagonist's final advice for readers who might have their own anxiety monsters?
-The protagonist's final advice is to understand that having an anxiety monster is common, and by using various strategies and seeking help when needed, one can learn to manage and tame their anxiety monster.
Outlines
👾 Understanding the Anxiety Monster
This paragraph introduces the concept of 'anxiety' as a monster that only the author can see. It describes how anxiety can manifest in various emotional and physical ways, such as feeling scared, tired, restless, angry, or experiencing a rapid heartbeat and difficulty breathing. The author decides to discuss this issue with their parents and finds comfort in knowing that their mother also experiences a similar 'monster.' The narrative emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding as a way to begin taming the anxiety monster.
🧘♀️ Taming the Anxiety Monster
The second paragraph delves into strategies for managing anxiety. It suggests that naming the anxiety monster can make it less intimidating, akin to naming a pet. The author shares personal techniques for coping with anxiety, such as engaging in physical activity to produce 'endorphins,' practicing yoga to clear the mind, and creating art to visualize the anxiety monster as less threatening. The paragraph also highlights the value of having a plan to manage anxiety when it becomes overwhelming. It reassures readers that many people experience anxiety and offers practical sensory techniques to regain control, such as focusing on the five senses. Lastly, it mentions the option of seeking professional help if needed and concludes with a positive message about the author's ability to manage their anxiety.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Anxiety
💡Personification
💡Endorphins
💡Yoga
💡Art
💡Planning
💡Five Senses
💡Counselors
💡Emotions
💡Taming
💡Self-Awareness
Highlights
The book introduces an anxiety monster that visits the author when they feel scared, worried, happy or just playing.
The anxiety monster can make the author feel tired, have difficulty concentrating, sleep restlessly, and feel angry.
Physical symptoms of the anxiety monster include a faster heartbeat, shaking, sweating, stomach pain, and dizziness.
The author decides to talk to their parents about the anxiety monster, and finds their mom also has a similar monster.
The author learns to train the anxiety monster like a new puppy, so it knows how to behave.
Giving the anxiety monster a name - Anxiety - makes it seem less scary.
Learning more about the anxiety monster helps the author understand why it visits so often.
The author is brave and strong and believes they can train the anxiety monster even if it seems big or scary.
Playing outside, walking, or exercising releases endorphins that make the anxiety monster a happy, helpful one.
Doing yoga and deep breathing helps shrink the anxiety monster.
Art can calm the author and make the anxiety monster seem smaller and less scary.
Having a plan for when the anxiety monster gets too big or wild helps the author stay in control.
Many people have an anxiety monster that visits them too, which is comforting to know.
Using the five senses to focus on something comforting can help calm the anxiety monster.
Special doctors or counselors can provide extra help in learning to train the anxiety monster.
The anxiety monster visits because the author has a big, caring heart that feels emotions deeply, which is a good thing.
The anxiety monster can be helpful during sports, public speaking, studying for a big test, or doing fun, scary activities like a roller coaster ride.
The author is stronger than their anxiety monster and can still do what they need to do even when it visits.
The author feels confident in their ability to tame their anxiety monster if it becomes a problem.
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