A WOMAN MUST NEVER PURSUE A MAN by RC Blakes

In this introductory paragraph, RC Blakes passionately urges his audience to engage in a vital discussion about the current societal perception of women's worth and self-worth. He expresses concern over the 'generation of broken consciousness' where women are misled into believing they are subordinate rather than rulers. Blakes emphasizes the negative impact of women actively pursuing men, arguing that it devalues their worth and disrupts the potential for healthy, committed relationships. He uses a metaphor from his grandmother about the value of 'milk' versus 'the cow' to illustrate his point, and he references Proverbs 18:22 to highlight the biblical perspective on finding a wife as a blessing.

RC Blakes continues the discussion by focusing on the biblical narrative that a man should be the pursuer in a relationship. He clarifies a common misunderstanding of Proverbs 18:22, stressing that it is the man who finds a wife who obtains a good thing and God's favor. Blakes shares his personal belief that a man worthy of a woman will actively pursue her, and he uses his own relationship with his wife, Lisa, as an example. He explains that a real man takes pride in winning over his woman, and he discusses the biblical account of Adam and Eve to illustrate the traditional roles of men and women in relationships.

In this paragraph, Blakes outlines his reasons why it is a bad idea for women to pursue men. He argues that when a woman pursues a man, she manifests masculine energy, which repels masculine men and attracts those who are not interested in leading. He references First Peter 3:7 to emphasize the importance of men leading and protecting. Blakes warns that pursuing a man can misrepresent a woman's virtue and lead to attracting men who are not suitable partners, ultimately resulting in a relationship that lacks the strength and support a woman needs.

Blakes delves deeper into the consequences of women pursuing men, discussing how it can be seen as a sign of desperation and a misrepresentation of virtue. He explains the difference between virginity and virtue, with the latter being about managing one's sexuality with care and restraint. He suggests that society's pressure on women to find a partner can lead them to act in ways that are out of character for their true selves, thus attracting the wrong kind of attention and relationships.

This paragraph addresses the emotional toll that rejection can take on women who pursue men. Blakes argues that women are not built to handle repeated rejection as well as men, and each rejection can significantly damage a woman's self-esteem. He uses biblical references to support his points, including Second Timothy 3:6-7 and Proverbs 13:12, to illustrate the potential negative effects on a woman's spirit and emotional well-being.

Blakes discusses the fifth reason why women should not pursue men, which is that it relieves men of their inherent responsibility to lead. He suggests that if a man needs a woman to initiate the relationship, it is unlikely that he will be able to lead effectively once the relationship is established. Blakes emphasizes the importance of a man's ability to lead from the outset and warns that by pursuing men, women may inadvertently attract partners who are not capable of providing the leadership and support necessary for a healthy relationship.

In the final paragraph, Blakes offers advice on how women can be approachable without being the pursuer. He suggests that smiling and being friendly are simple yet powerful ways to signal to men that it is acceptable for them to approach. Blakes also emphasizes the importance of being well-groomed and appearing interested when men show interest, as this can encourage meaningful connections. He concludes by urging women to focus on self-discovery and personal growth rather than desperation for a relationship.

Blakes concludes the video script with a heartfelt prayer for healing, clarity, and anointing for his audience. He also provides information about his website, online programs, and upcoming books, inviting viewers to engage further with his teachings. He expresses gratitude for the support he has received and looks forward to future interactions with his audience.